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BODY and BREATHING
TOUCH - BODY AWARENESS
This essay is not about broadband sensing. This is about the internal body sense. Body and breathing awareness is a different dimension of empathising with animals.
Our sub-culture is rich in such exercises. Humans have developed thousands of meditations with our kinaesthetic sense, autogenic training, and the internal awareness of our own body. To my knowledge, they are all effective ways of re-energising, real-ising yourself, and finding some peace, balance and happiness.
I have nothing truly significant to add, but i'd like to summarise a few ideas for beginners, and i'd like to shake things up a bit for routine meditators.
First i'd like to present 'My Theory of Evolution and Human Development': In the womb, there's a shape which we are and can move. This shape develops like a 5 legged starfish, and every one of the 5 ends is hard (bony) and sensitive. Both the sensitivity and the hardness make good sense, because that's where our ancestors kept bumping into things.
As we evolved, we started moving in one direction and collected all the main sensors at one of the ends (the end which got the most bumps), with the other four ends doing what the main-sensor end told them .. and so we developed arms and legs.
It is interesting to realise that every one of the 5 ends can "feel, hold and do things". The hands and feet, feel, hold and do things with objects, and the mind feels (recognises, realises), holds (remembers), and does things with thoughts.
Inside our body, there are harder and softer parts, and sensitivity. I find the traditional ideas of earth, water and fire, a useful basic exercise to explore the inside shape and feel of the skin we are in. (Wind comes later with breathing.)
Firstly the five ends are earth, hard. The arms, legs and neck are softer with hard thin long things, covered with a sort of watery jello blubber. Then comes sheets of hardness: the hips, and the shoulders and rib cage; and then (very sensibly) the very softest area, protected in the middle.
And the whole thing has various temperatures, ... and where does it feel most warm? And how does your spine feel - does it feel hard? or soft? or warm? And it's not static, there's a lot of activity from chemical exchanges going on, a sense of excitement with different areas fermenting, bubbling and fizzing ... (the stomach digesting, the blood circulating and, i think it must be, the nervous system itself).
And we know the beating comes from the heart, but i find it easy to feel as though the beating comes from the middle body and the belly. One of the questions i'd love parents to ask their two to ten year olds : "where do you feel the beating and where do you think it comes from, where does it start?"
When i was young, i would lie on my back - be aware of my breathing, feel my whole body expanding and contracting - and feel at peace, and more real and true than anything i was meant to be learning in school.
If i'd been asked, i'd have thought i breathed into and out of my belly, i don't know how i'd have explained the expansion and contraction, i never questioned it. When i was around 17 (after leaving school) i started reading and discovered we have lungs pumped by a diagphram.
The anatomical science is good to know, but we seem to have forgotten the subjective feeling which has been at the foundation of every warm-blooded animals self awareness, over at least 150 million years ... and i find the feeling of breathing into my whole body is a far more wholesome experience than the scientific truth.
After activity, when i'm out of breath, the air goes clearly to my chest and lungs, and it feels as though it passes through my neck. No animal or child could ever imagine the air goes first down the wind pipe and then back up into the lungs.
I'm speaking of a general need to be in touch with our feelings. Even if our feelings are irrational, to heal ourselves we must acknowledge them and work with them. It is irrational to believe i beathe into my belly and that the whole body expands and contracts. But that's how it feels.
And the first question i would love parents to ask their two to ten year olds is: "when you breathe, where does the breath come and go in your body?"
When i started reading i also discovered Buddhism. Religious texts and commentaries interested and distracted me for many years. But at some stage i picked up the Buddhist idea of "conscious i breath in, letting go i breath out". I still find this a very useful meditation idea. There are various ways to combine the breathing with 'being conscious and letting go'. And though it may seem ideal to be consiousness and let go at the same time, it is effective to separate the two steps.
Recently, since experimenting with smells, i would describe the feeling as filling up and emptying out. 'Filling up and emptying out', 'Conscious and letting go', 'Getting bigger and smaller' : I find all of these good and simple ways to feel whole inside my body. There is no reason to decide which is best, they are all good at different times.